Monday, December 29, 2014

See you soon - Melbourne!

What's your reason for falling in love  with Melbourne, the most livable  city in the world? cover

Giving ourself to nature does wonders in the most amazing ways, for it has so much to offer that we have to say 'enough of it' for once for the amount that nature offers to us. We need to be grateful to the mother nature for the blessings that it has bestowed on us since the times immemorial since the very dawn of the human civilizations that we have known so far, even before the discovery of the land. Magellan on his way to discover the world route, landed over into the beautiful lands of Australia, the tiny continent surrounded by water on all sides, where no one would escape setting out on another journey like that of Magellan, ay be in search of another Earth on this planet Earth. Well, may be, who knows, anything can happen into the world of inventions and discoveries, for we just need to wake up and give ourselves to the calls of the nature where we can not only discover the outer beauty but also can conquer the inner beauty and our inner self that lays with us.
Few of the destinations that have been on my mind for exploring the live city of Melbourne are mentioned below:
Royal Botanical Garden!
- This beautiful location has the most attractive spots and lists itself as the most preferred destination to be viewed when in Melbourne. Being a nature lover myself, I would to go out on a voyage exploring this lovely location that is beautifully dressed with the gifts and grants of the nature and being a botanical garden, authorities governing to the best of efforts and giving the visitors their delight of the blessed destination.
The Great Ocean Road!
- The long drives at the breath-taking destination of the world is the one called "The Great Ocean Road" located at Melbourne. Since I love motoring, I have the highest and the best of hopes with this place holding prime importance into my wishlist of the places to be visited. I am counting down on the days left for the shortening of my wishlist, when I would be able to strike down to experience this mesmerizing journey on the great ocean road. The wait would be over when I would satisfy my quench of seeing the 12 apostles, London bridge, villages across the way, Loche Ard Gorge, Bay of Islands and the beaches on this very road.
Dandenong Ranges!
- I await to get to the base camp of this particular range as this is known for the 1000 steps journey of climbing. Also, public transport journey to this place is worth to look forward to, as it is known to be a peaceful resting place at the top of it. Also, this place a huge flora history associated to it which brought me closer to the love of visiting this very particular place in Melbourne. I am more in a lurk of taking a hiking experience here, other than the places at my own very country. I know, it won't let me down and make me go lively and fill me with the charm that the nature instills into me each time.
Melbourne Zoo!
- Going out on a safe bet around Melbourne to spend a day with the fauna of the location, is a great option. What I have learnt about it is that it has one the best laid plan. It has been known for the vast assortment of wildlife, which comprises some of the best breeds. It is known for the quality management of the zoo making it one of the best listed on the directory of the man-made fauna parks.
Fitzroy Gardens!
- The peace filled location in the Melbourne city is a great outdoor park. The cook's cottage here is a great place to see, which I would like to see it with my own eyes, and spend a day there with the nature and a book high on my mind at that particular time. What more a bibliophile would want in life ? Well, I have had these experiences of the similar type at other destination. I would love to take back a memory from Melbourne from this beautiful place.
Along with these marked beautiful places at the most liveable city in the world, I love to hop around in the public transport and see the local and closer parts of Melbourne through the City Centre Tram. It is always beautiful to experience any new location in the public transport of the city as that stands more useful and delightful experiences about the place, and provides good learning for the place. This gives the city tour across the main attractions of the city that include the Parliament House, Old Street Building, and many more. 
What brought me closer loving this city are the videos of Tanmay and Roy where they are spoilt for the choice of visiting the places in Melbourne and take back the best of memories from the place.

Melbourne, the city that earned some of the best titles for itself, like that of 'City of Literature''Most Liveable city', and many more alike, is one of the top-most destination waiting on my wish-list to be explored.

Here, I would like to ask a question from the readers - Which of these places would you want to visit in Melbourne and why ?
One of the best answer gets to win a voucher worth 500!! Go commenting and winning! 
I am looking forward to dig the city deep with TOURISM VICTORIA WEBSITE and Indiblogger.

Thursday, December 4, 2014

To be or not to be: A baffling journey!

One’s sexuality is one’s own personal choice. Nobody really holds the strings attached to it and should not be concerned really so as to dictate whom you should love and why. The Laws and Order, and the society that we live in, largely requires to be changed to accommodate a very large percentage of people who are forced to live in the closet.

In the earlier times, the marriage was about finding the partner mate in terms of holding financial security and having social strata. By far, those rules have come to occupy a backspace and are not applicable any more. The times have come where both men and women wish to experiment, discover and find compatibility in several senses that would range from — emotional, physical and sexual. 

Embarking upon a relationship merely does not mean youngsters have the idea of marriage on their mind. Whether it is a one-night stand, a casual relationship or a live-in, commitment does not have to be on the agenda.

While the women in the contemporary times are far more empowered and are ready to embrace their sexuality, the male mind-set has changed, but not as much, as it is ought to be. The trope of the virginal bride still holds and captures their mind. Tag it as the double standards, the cost of straddling a la-la land between tradition or modernity or just plain old hypocrisy, the fact is that the youth of urban India hardly practice what they preach. 

Pre-marital sex and casual relationships have been de-stigmatized in the youths' minds but they are afraid of being found out and caught. The guilt is not about the act itself, but the fear of being discovered.

Is it fine to have premarital sex? This is one of the common question that lingers among the teens and the engaged couples. 

Perhaps, this is an indication that one is in a relationship that is progressing in that direction, but one is not sure what to do and where to head from that locus. In one’s own mind, one is probably weighing the pros and cons of the issue concerning pre-marital sex. On the positive side of the scale, there is hope for pleasure, and the fulfillment of sexual desires. The negative side of the same scale carries the weights of morals, fear of pregnancy or disease, and guilt. How do these scales balance?

Every relationship is unique in its own ways and one cannot and should not say why people make the choices they make in a relationship. Having said that, marriage is commitment and the alpha male mindset where you can get away with anything is just not acceptable. We are westernized enough to indulge in a casual sexual encounter but still caught in the patriarchal time warp where we cannot entertain the idea of our wife/girlfriend ever being touched by another man.

Law only works to threaten people, and can never make them to not do something. Sex in itself is not wrong. The most effective way of defending premarital love-making is spreading awareness of healthy sexuality among people. Awareness of healthy sexuality is not at all the knowledge of safe sexuality. 

It is essential to train individuals to mingle with opposite sex in a mature way, and inspiring them to have mutual respect for man and woman. From the very childhood itself a baby should learn to accept people as men and women, the equal partners of life on earth; not as objects to fulfill lusty wishes and ambitions, and instead opt to rejoice the acts of love.


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